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How to Beat Burn Out, Get More Done, and Feel Happy with SMART Goals and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) – A Simple Guide for Kids and Adults

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Why You Keep Playing Small (EFT Tapping to Overcome Fear of Success)

Do you feel tired all the time? Do you have too many things to do and not enough time? Do you feel sad or angry about your work or school? You are not alone. Many people feel this way. This is called burn out. Burn out happens when you work too hard for too long without rest. It makes you feel empty and sad.

But there is good news! You can stop burn out. You can be productive (that means getting important things done). You can also have fun with your family and friends. This is called work-life balance. And you can reach your goals using SMART goals. SMART goals are special goals that are easy to follow.

In this blog, we talk to life coach Sandhya Krishnan. She helps people feel better and work better. She also teaches a special tool called emotional freedom technique (or EFT for short). EFT is a simple way to tap on your body to feel calm. It stops burn out before it hurts you.

We will use very simple English. Even a child can understand. Let's start!

Understanding Burn Out and Why It Hurts Your Life

Burn out is like a candle that burns too fast. When you work or study for many hours without a break, your brain gets very tired. You feel angry, sad, and tired all the time. You don't want to do anything. That is burn out.

Sandhya Krishnan says, "Burn out is very common today. Many people think working hard all the time is good. But it is not good. Burn out makes you slow and unhappy. You cannot be productive if you have burn out."

Simple Signs That You Have Burn Out

How do you know if you have burn out? Here are some signs:

  • You feel very tired even after sleeping.

  • You don't feel happy about things you used to love.

  • You get angry at small things.

  • You cannot focus on your work or homework.

  • Your body hurts – headaches, stomach pain, or back pain.

  • You feel like nothing you do is good enough.

If you have these signs, you may have burn out. But don't worry. You can fix it. One of the best ways is using emotional freedom technique.

What Is Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)?

Emotional freedom technique is a simple method to calm your mind and body. You use your fingers to tap on certain spots on your head, face, and chest. While tapping, you say a sentence about your problem. This sends a message to your brain to relax. EFT is also called tapping.

Sandhya Krishnan explains, "Emotional freedom technique is like a reset button for your feelings. When you feel stressed or have burn out, your body is in fight-or-flight mode. EFT tells your body that everything is okay. It lowers stress hormones and makes you feel safe."

EFT was made by a doctor named Gary Craig. Many studies show that EFT works for stress, worry, and burn out. You can learn EFT in five minutes. You can do it anywhere – at home, at work, or at school.

Why EFT Works So Well for Stress and Burn Out

Your body has energy paths called meridians. When you feel sad or scared, the energy gets stuck. Emotional freedom technique taps on the meridians to free the energy. It is like unclogging a pipe. When energy flows freely, you feel calm and happy.

EFT also lowers cortisol. Cortisol is a chemical that makes you feel stressed. Too much cortisol causes burn out. EFT brings cortisol down quickly. That is why EFT is so good for burn out.

Simple Steps to Do EFT Tapping for Burn Out

Now let us learn how to do emotional freedom technique. Follow these steps. You can do them right now.

Step 1: Find Your Problem

Think about what is making you feel burn out. Is it too much work? Is it a difficult boss or teacher? Is it a deadline? Pick one problem.

Step 2: Rate Your Pain

On a scale of 0 to 10, how bad does this problem feel? 0 means no pain. 10 means the worst pain ever. Write down your number.

Step 3: Make a Setup Sentence

Say this sentence three times while tapping the side of your hand (the karate chop point). The sentence is: "Even though I have this [name your problem], I deeply and completely accept myself."

For example: "Even though I have burn out from my job, I deeply and completely accept myself."

Step 4: Tap on the Points

Now tap 5 to 7 times on each point below. Use two fingers. Tap gently. Say a reminder word like "this burn out" or "this stress" while tapping.

The tapping points are:

  1. Top of head

  2. Eyebrow (where your eyebrow starts, near the nose)

  3. Side of eye (on the bone)

  4. Under eye (on the bone)

  5. Under nose

  6. Chin (the dent below your lower lip)

  7. Collarbone (the soft spot near your neck)

  8. Under arm (about 4 inches below armpit)

Step 5: Take a Deep Breath

After tapping all points, take a deep breath in and out.

Step 6: Check Your Pain Again

Now rate your problem again from 0 to 10. Did the number go down? If not, do another round. Most people feel much better after 2 or 3 rounds.

Sandhya Krishnan says, "Emotional freedom technique is so simple that a five-year-old can do it. I teach EFT to all my clients who have burn out. They feel lighter and happier in just ten minutes."

How Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Helps You Beat Burn Out

Now let us see exactly how EFT fights burn out. Remember, burn out is not just being tired. It is a deep feeling of emptiness. EFT works in three ways:

1. EFT Lowers Stress Quickly

When you have burn out, your body is always ready to run or fight. This uses up all your energy. Emotional freedom technique tells your brain, "You are safe. You can rest." Within minutes, your heart rate slows down. Your muscles relax. You feel peaceful.

2. EFT Stops Negative Thoughts

Burn out makes you think bad things like "I am not good enough" or "I will never finish this work". EFT helps you change those thoughts. When you tap and say the problem out loud, your brain learns that the problem is not so scary. You become calmer and more confident.

3. EFT Gives You More Energy

When you are not stressed, you have more energy for important things. Emotional freedom technique removes the blocks that make you feel stuck. After doing EFT, many people feel fresh and ready to work. They can focus better. They make fewer mistakes.

Sandhya Krishnan shares a story: "One of my clients had terrible burn out. She could not get out of bed. She cried every day. I taught her emotional freedom technique. She tapped every morning for two weeks. After that, her burn out was gone. She went back to work happy. She still uses EFT whenever she feels tired."

SMART Goals Help You Avoid Burn Out

Now let us talk about goals. A goal is something you want to achieve. But many people make goals that are too big or too vague. That leads to burn out. For example, "I want to be rich" is a vague goal. You don't know where to start. You feel lost and tired.

That is why we use SMART goals. SMART is a special rule for making good goals. SMART stands for:

  • Specific – The goal is clear and exact.

  • Measurable – You can track your progress.

  • Achievable – The goal is hard but possible.

  • Relevant – The goal matters to you.

  • Time-bound – The goal has a deadline.

Sandhya Krishnan says, "SMART goals stop burn out because they give you a clear path. You don't waste energy guessing what to do next. Every small step feels good. And when you feel good, you don't get burn out."

Example of a SMART Goal

Bad goal: "I want to be healthy."

SMART goal: "I will walk for 15 minutes every day after dinner for the next 30 days."

See the difference? The SMART goal tells you exactly what to do, when to do it, and for how long. You can measure it. It is small enough to do without burn out.

Using EFT to Clear Blocks Before Setting SMART Goals

Sometimes you know what your SMART goal should be, but you feel scared or lazy. That is a block. Emotional freedom technique can remove that block. Before you write your SMART goal, do one minute of EFT on the feeling of fear. Tap and say, "Even though I am scared to try, I accept myself." After tapping, you will feel braver. Then you can set your SMART goal easily.

Sandhya Krishnan explains, "I always tell my clients to do EFT first and then set SMART goals. Emotional freedom technique clears the fog in your brain. You see clearly what you really want. And you have the energy to go after it without burn out."

How to Structure Your Day to Be Productive and Balanced

Now you know about burn out, emotional freedom technique, EFT, and SMART goals. But how do you put it all together? Here is a simple daily plan from Sandhya Krishnan.

Morning Ritual (15 minutes)

When you wake up, do not grab your phone. Instead:

  • Take 5 deep breaths.

  • Do 5 minutes of EFT on any worries. Tap on "Even though I feel tired, I accept myself."

  • Drink a glass of water.

  • Write down your top 3 SMART goals for the day.

Work or Study Time (Using the 90-20 Rule)

Your brain can focus deeply for about 90 minutes. After that, it needs a break. So:

  • Work on one SMART goal for 90 minutes.

  • Then take a 20-minute break.

  • During the break, do emotional freedom technique for 2 minutes. This clears stress and stops burn out.

  • Then start another 90-minute block.

Sandhya Krishnan says, "The 90-20 rule is magic. It gives your brain time to rest. And when you add EFT in the breaks, you never build up burn out. You stay fresh all day."

Afternoon Check-In

At lunch time, ask yourself: "Do I feel burn out coming?" Rate your stress from 0 to 10. If it is above 5, do a full round of emotional freedom technique. Tap on all points. Say "This burn out feeling" as you tap. You will feel better in 5 minutes.

Evening Reflection (10 minutes)

Before you sleep, look at your SMART goals. Which ones did you finish? Celebrate small wins. Then write down three things you are grateful for. Finally, do one minute of EFT on your collarbone point. Say "I did my best today. I am proud of myself."

Night Routine for Good Sleep

Sleep is the best medicine for burn out. You need 7 to 8 hours of sleep. To sleep well:

  • No screens 1 hour before bed.

  • Do emotional freedom technique while lying down. Tap gently on your head and say "I let go of all stress."

  • Keep your room dark and cool.

Sandhya Krishnan adds, "Many people with burn out cannot sleep because their mind races. EFT before bed is like a lullaby for your brain. It turns off the worry and helps you fall asleep fast."

Daily Habits to Stay Consistent and Happy

Habits are small things you do every day. Good habits protect you from burn out. Here are 7 habits that work well with emotional freedom technique and SMART goals.

Habit 1: Daily Planning with SMART Goals

Every morning, spend 5 minutes writing your SMART goals for the day. Make them small and clear. For example: "I will write 200 words of my report by 10 AM." This stops burn out because you are not confused about what to do.

Habit 2: Morning EFT Tapping

Start your day with emotional freedom technique. Tap on "Even though I might get burn out today, I deeply accept myself." This prepares your brain to handle stress calmly.

Habit 3: Celebrate Small Wins

After finishing a SMART goal, say "Good job, me!" You can also tap on your collarbone and say "I did it!" Celebration releases happy chemicals in your brain. It fights burn out.

Habit 4: Gratitude Journaling

Write down 3 good things every day. They can be tiny, like "I ate a tasty apple." Gratitude lowers stress. When you feel grateful, burn out cannot grow.

Habit 5: Avoid Digital Distractions

Phones and computers can steal your time. They cause burn out because you never feel done. Put your phone in another room when you work. Check emails only 3 times a day. Use EFT when you feel the urge to check your phone. Tap and say "I choose to focus."

Habit 6: Move Your Body

Exercise for 20 minutes every day. You can walk, dance, or stretch. Movement lowers cortisol. If you feel too tired to exercise, do emotional freedom technique first. After tapping, you will have more energy.

Habit 7: Get Quality Sleep

We said this before, but it is very important. No sleep = burn out. Make a SMART goal for sleep: "I will be in bed by 10 PM every night this week." Use EFT if you have trouble falling asleep.

Sandhya Krishnan says, "These 7 habits are like a shield against burn out. And emotional freedom technique is the glue that holds them together. Whenever a habit feels hard, tap on it. EFT makes everything easier."

Mindset: The Most Important Thing for Productivity and Goals

Your mindset is how you think about yourself and the world. If you think "I am always tired and behind," you will feel burn out all the time. But if you think "I can grow and learn," you will feel strong and happy.

Sandhya Krishnan explains, "Mindset is everything. Emotional freedom technique changes your mindset quickly. When you tap on a negative belief, it loses power. Then you can replace it with a positive belief."

How to Use EFT to Build a Growth Mindset

A growth mindset means you believe you can get better with effort. Here is an EFT script for a growth mindset:

Tap on the karate chop point and say three times: "Even though I think I am not good enough, I deeply accept myself."

Then tap on each point and say:

  • Top of head: "All this burn out I feel"

  • Eyebrow: "The thought that I am not good"

  • Side of eye: "It makes me tired"

  • Under eye: "But I am learning"

  • Under nose: "I can grow"

  • Chin: "I can rest when I need to"

  • Collarbone: "Burn out does not mean I am weak"

  • Under arm: "I am strong and I am getting better"

After this emotional freedom technique round, you will feel more hopeful. You will see challenges as fun puzzles, not scary problems.

Final Advice for Those Feeling Stuck or Overwhelmed

Do you feel like nothing is working? Do you feel burn out even after reading this? That is okay. Many people feel that way. Here is what Sandhya Krishnan wants you to remember:

Start Very Small

Do not try to change everything in one day. That will cause burn out. Instead, pick one tiny thing. For example, "I will do 2 minutes of emotional freedom technique every morning." That is easy, right? Do that for one week. Then add another small habit.

Use EFT for Every Big Feeling

Whenever you feel angry, sad, scared, or tired, do EFT. Emotional freedom technique works for all feelings. Do not wait until you have full burn out. Use EFT at the first sign of stress. Tap on "This feeling in my chest" or "This knot in my stomach." The feeling will go away.

Give Yourself Permission to Rest

Rest is not lazy. Rest is how you avoid burn out. Schedule rest time like a SMART goal. For example: "I will sit quietly and do nothing for 10 minutes at 3 PM." During that rest, you can do a short EFT round. Tap on "I allow myself to rest without guilt."

You Don't Have to Do It All

Nobody can do everything. That is a lie. Successful people say no to many things so they can say yes to what matters. Use emotional freedom technique to feel okay about saying no. Tap on "Even though I feel guilty saying no, I accept myself."

The Next Right Thing

When you feel stuck, don't think about the whole mountain. Just think about the next small step. Ask yourself, "What is the next right thing?" Maybe it is drinking water. Maybe it is doing one minute of EFT. Maybe it is writing one sentence of your report. Do that one thing. Then do the next right thing. Slowly, you will move forward without burn out.

Sandhya Krishnan's final words: "Burn out is not your fault. The world asks too much of us. But you have tools now. Emotional freedom technique is free, fast, and powerful. SMART goals give you clarity. And work-life balance is possible when you set boundaries and rest. You can do this. Start today. Tap on your collarbone right now and say 'I am ready to feel better.' Then take one small step. I believe in you."

Conclusion: Thrive, Not Just Survive

We learned a lot today. Let us review:

  • Burn out happens when you work too hard without rest. It makes you tired, sad, and angry.

  • Emotional freedom technique (or EFT) is tapping on your body to feel calm. It lowers stress and stops burn out.

  • You can do EFT anywhere, anytime. It takes only 2 to 5 minutes.

  • SMART goals are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. They stop burn out because they give you clear steps.

  • Use the 90-20 rule: work for 90 minutes, then take a 20-minute break with EFT.

  • Daily habits like planning, gratitude, exercise, and sleep protect you from burn out.

  • Mindset matters. Use emotional freedom technique to change negative thoughts into positive ones.

  • Start small. Do one tiny thing. Then do the next right thing.

You deserve to be productive AND happy. You deserve to reach your SMART goals without burn out. And now you have emotional freedom technique (EFT) as your secret weapon.

So take a deep breath. Tap on your head. Say "I am done with burn out." Then go out and live a life that is both productive and peaceful. You can do it!

 

🌸 About Neeti Keswani

Neeti Keswani is an Authority Story Coach who bridges business success with inner transformation
* Unique perspective on how personal narratives shape leadership, confidence, and influence
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