Introduction: What Does It Mean to "Feel" Your Healing?
Many of us live at war with our own bodies. We see them as separate from our thoughts and feelings. We might get frustrated with pain, angry at how we look, or feel betrayed by our body when it gets sick or tired.
If you have experienced trauma, this feeling of separation can be even stronger. It can feel like your body is a dangerous place you want to escape from.
This is where the concept of "embodied wellness" comes in. It means moving beyond just thinking about healing and starting to feel it in your body. It’s about making peace with your physical self, listening to its wisdom, and understanding that your body, mind, and spirit are one connected system.
Ho'oponopono, the ancient Hawaiian practice of forgiveness and reconciliation, is a powerful key to unlocking this kind of deep, embodied healing. While the basic practice is simple, we can use it in more advanced ways to speak directly to our bodies, release stored trauma, and cleanse our energy. This guide will show you how.
Your Original Heading: Advanced Practice: Ho‘oponopono in Embodied Wellness (Body, Trauma, Energy)
When you first learn Ho'oponopono, you learn the four magic phrases: "I'm sorry, Please forgive me, Thank you, I love you." You might say them in a general way to clean your memories and problems .
But what does an advanced practice look like? It doesn't mean it becomes more difficult. It means it becomes more specific, personal, and deeply felt. It’s about moving the practice from your head into your entire being.
Advanced Ho'oponopono for embodied wellness involves three key areas:
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Talking directly to your body to heal body image and physical pain. 
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Releasing deep trauma stored in your body and subconscious mind. 
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Cleansing your energy system to restore your natural flow and balance. 
Let's explore each of these.
Part 1: Advanced Ho'oponopono for Your Body
Many of us have been taught to see our bodies as objects to be controlled, judged, or fixed. We only value them when they are productive, pain-free, or look a certain way . This constant battle creates stress and disconnection.
An advanced practice is to use Ho'oponopono to end this war and make peace.
How to Practice: A Dialogue with Your Body
Instead of saying the phrases generally, talk directly to your body or a specific body part. This makes the practice feel real and creates a powerful shift .
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Find a Quiet Space: Sit or lie down comfortably. Place a hand gently on your heart, your stomach, or any area you want to connect with. 
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Address Your Body: Start by saying, "My dear body," or "Dear stomach," to focus your attention. 
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Say the Phrases with Specific Reasons: This is the most important step. Don't just say the words; feel them and give them a reason. 
Here is an example of what you could say:
"My dear body, I am sorry. I am sorry for all the negative things I have said about you. I am sorry for pushing you too hard and not listening when you were tired. I am sorry for the shame I have felt towards you .
Please forgive me. Please forgive me for not honoring you and for treating you like you were my enemy. Please forgive me for not seeing your true beauty and strength.
Thank you. Thank you for everything you do for me. Thank you for breathing, for digesting my food, for allowing me to feel the sun on my skin. Thank you for working so hard to keep me alive and healthy, even when I was not kind to you .
I love you. I love you, body. I love you just as you are in this moment."
Why This is an Advanced Practice:
This method moves beyond automatic repetition. It requires you to be honest, vulnerable, and truly present with your body. You are not just cleaning a memory; you are rebuilding a relationship. People who practice this often report feeling a sense of warmth, relaxation, or even receiving intuitive insights about what their body needs to heal .
Part 2: Advanced Ho'oponopono for Releasing Trauma
Trauma isn't just a memory in your mind; it is stored in the very cells of your body . This can show up as anxiety, chronic pain, or feeling easily overwhelmed.
Ho'oponopono teaches that we are 100% responsible for our reality, not to blame ourselves, but because we have the power to clean the memories causing our suffering . When we clean these memories, the trauma loses its power.
How to Practice: Cleaning the Root, Not the Branch
When you feel triggered by a past memory or a current situation that causes a strong emotional reaction, use it as a signal to clean.
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Acknowledge the Feeling: When anxiety, fear, or anger comes up, don't push it away. Say to yourself, "I see this feeling. This is a memory replaying in my subconscious. I am responsible for cleaning it." 
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Apply the Phrases to the Feeling: Direct the phrases at the feeling itself or the part of you that is hurting (sometimes called your "inner child"). - 
"I'm sorry that I am holding onto this pain. I'm sorry that this part of me is so scared." 
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"Please forgive me for ignoring you for so long. Please forgive me for the ways I have let this memory hurt us." 
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"Thank you for coming up to be healed. Thank you for protecting me for all these years." 
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"I love you. I love you, and you are safe now." 
 
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Trust the Process: You don't need to know the exact origin of the trauma. Your job is to clean, not to analyze. As you clean, the heavy energy around the memory will dissolve . You might find that the memory feels less intense, or you simply feel calmer and more grounded in the present moment. 
Part 3: Advanced Ho'oponopono for Energy Cleansing
Everything is made of energy, including your thoughts and emotions. When you hold onto negative memories, they can create "stuck" or heavy energy in your system, leading to fatigue and a feeling of being drained .
Advanced practitioners use Ho'oponopono to clean this stagnant energy and restore their natural, vibrant flow.
How to Practice: The Shower of Light Technique
This is a powerful visualization you can use anywhere, anytime.
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Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths. 
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Imagine a beautiful, cleansing light coming from above your head. This light is made of pure love and peace. 
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As you breathe in, imagine this light flowing down through the top of your head, filling your entire body. As it flows, silently repeat the four phrases: "I'm sorry, Please forgive me, Thank you, I love you." 
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Visualize the light washing away all the heavy, dark, or stuck energy inside you. See this old energy being flushed out through the soles of your feet, down into the earth to be recycled. 
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Continue until you feel lighter, cleaner, and more peaceful. 
This practice combines the cleaning power of Ho'oponopono with the intentional focus of your mind. It’s a direct way to "make right" (the translation of Ho'oponopono) the energy within you .
Bringing It All Together: A Simple Advanced Practice Routine
You don't need to do everything at once. Start small and be consistent.
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Morning: When you wake up, place a hand on your heart and do 2-3 minutes of the "Dialogue with Your Body" practice. 
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During the Day: Whenever you feel stress or a negative emotion, use the "Cleaning the Root" method for a minute or two. 
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Evening: Before sleep, do the 5-minute "Shower of Light" technique to clean the day's energies and rest deeply. 
Conclusion: Your Journey to Wholeness
Advanced Ho'oponopono is a journey of coming home to yourself. It is a gentle, powerful path to heal the split between your body, your mind, and your spirit. By speaking directly to your body, cleaning the roots of trauma, and cleansing your energy, you move from just saying words to truly embodying the peace and forgiveness that Ho'oponopono offers.
Remember, the goal is not perfection. The goal is to make things right, one memory, one breath, one "I love you" at a time.
I'm sorry, Please forgive me, Thank you, I love you.
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