Introduction: Becoming Your Highest Self is a Choice—Not a Privilege
When we think of the elite, we often imagine inherited privilege, wealth, and access. But what if I told you that the most powerful tools the elite were taught—like identity mastery, emotional regulation, mindset, and purpose-are available to you, too?
As a business storytelling coach and certified Ho’oponopono practitioner, I work with creators and spiritual entrepreneurs who want to align their inner world with outer success. On the Luxury Unplugged Podcast, we explore how self-mastery isn’t about doing more – it’s about becoming more of who you already are.
Below are 10 powerful coaching questions I use with my clients to unlock the version of themselves they were born to become—elite not by bloodline, but by conscious design.
🔹 10 Coaching Questions to Unlock the Best Version of Yourself
1. What does it really mean to be the “best version” of you?
Being your best self isn’t about perfection. It’s about alignment. It means showing up with purpose, clarity, and presence. It’s the version of you that responds rather than reacts. The version that creates rather than competes. That leads with heart, not hustle.
When I guide my clients, we don’t aim for a fantasy self—we aim for the real, awake, untethered you.
2. Were the elite really taught differently from birth?
Yes—and no. The elite are often conditioned early with a sense of worthiness, vision, and ownership. But you can teach yourself those principles now—consciously.
Through journaling, mentorship, and Ho’oponopono, you rewire your subconscious to receive what once felt out of reach. That’s why self-awareness is the first luxury.
3. How do you start rewiring your mindset for growth?
Awareness is your entry point. Every belief you hold either limits or liberates you. Start by asking:
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“Whose voice is this?”
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“Is this true for me now?”
Then, clear it with:
“I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.” (Ho’oponopono)
This sacred tool resets emotional energy—so you can create from clarity, not old noise.
4. What habits separate high performers from dreamers?
The elite make decisions before they feel ready. They anchor into morning rituals, reflection time, and deep work.
As I teach in Luxury Unplugged, elite habits aren’t about grinding—they’re about intentional living. Meditation. Gratitude. Storytelling. Aligning your day with your soul’s calendar, not just your to-do list.
5. How does storytelling help in becoming your best self?
Your story shapes your identity. If you’re telling yourself, “I’ve always been this way”, that narrative becomes your limit.
In coaching, I help clients rewrite their “origin story” to reflect strength, healing, and purpose. When your story shifts, your life expands. As I say often: your next level is just a better story away.
6. How do emotions affect personal evolution?
Unprocessed emotions are like viruses running in the background—they slow you down without you knowing. That’s why emotional journaling and Ho’oponopono are daily practices I use personally and with clients.
The elite were taught emotional regulation through mentorship. You can teach yourself the same—by learning to pause and process before you perform.
7. What’s the most overlooked tool for transformation?
Stillness.
We’re taught to chase answers. But in stillness, the real you emerges. The one who isn’t reacting. Who doesn’t need applause. Who simply knows.
My best business decisions came from quiet walks, meditative journaling, or breathwork. Silence isn’t the absence of progress—it’s the origin of it.
8. What are “identity anchors” and why do the elite use them?
Identity anchors are rituals, symbols, or routines that ground you into who you’re becoming. For the elite, it might be a morning routine, a piece of jewelry, or a specific phrase.
For my clients, I encourage creating soulful anchors like:
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A sacred altar
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A mantra (e.g., “I lead with love”)
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Or even how they dress to embody their next level self
9. Can you become “elite” without privilege?
Yes. Because elite isn’t about class—it’s about conscious choice.
You become elite when you commit to self-inquiry. When you take radical responsibility for your healing. When you stop reacting from wounds and start responding from wisdom.
It’s not inherited—it’s initiated.
10. What’s the first step someone can take today?
Start with presence.
Ask: “What version of me made this decision? Who do I need to be to evolve?”
Then, breathe. Write. Forgive. Visualize.
This is the formula I teach in Luxury Unplugged:
🌿 Awareness
🌿 Release
🌿 Realignment
The best version of you already exists—you’re just becoming aware of her.
✨ Conclusion: You Are Your Own Inheritance
The elite weren’t born better. They were taught better—or rather, earlier.
But the good news is: you can start now.
Your energy is your legacy. And your story is your strategy.
Become the woman who knows she is her best investment. Because when your inner world upgrades, your entire life does.
💫 About Neeti Keswani
Neeti Keswani is a Business Storytelling Coach, certified Ho’oponopono Practitioner, and founder of Plush-ink.com. She is the host of the globally loved Luxury Unplugged Podcast and author of the bestselling book Live Your Dreams.
She helps spiritual entrepreneurs and creative professionals align their purpose with prosperity—using personal branding, emotional healing, and soul-led strategy.
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